Sexual perspective is changing rapidly these days, what was untenable in the 1990’s now stands as normal or Ideal situation. Sexual craving in the other room is on the rise no thanks to p*rnography. Let me not deviate, I am talking about faking sexual climaxes, we all know what it means.
If you thought that women were the only ones who ever faked a screaming orgasm, think again: men can fake orgasms, too. In a 2010 University of Kansas study, 25% of men surveyed were found to have faked an orgasm. On average, that means men are more likely to fake an orgasm than inflate their salaries in an online dating profile.
So what are the reasons that men give for pulling this string? According to the Kansas study, the primary reason men fake orgasm is actually to avoid upsetting the person with whom they are having sex when it turns out they can’t orgasm at all. Men give several reasons for why they can’t, some of which: exhaustion, stress, alcohol or other drug consumption. Throw performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction into the mix and a man’s inability to orgasm has far more to do with them than it does with women.
So what are the specific reasons that men fake orgasms? Here are 4 things that show your man could be faking it.
1. AVOID HURTING HER FEELINGS
Some men fake it in order to inflate your partner's ego: it's not just for ladies anymore! According to Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, an associate clinical professor of urology at Harvard Medical School and the author of Why Men Fake It, many male orgasm-fakers — just like their female counter-parts — are trying to protect their partner's feelings, and fear that admitting that they can't orgasm from a particular sexual encounter would wound their lover's ego.
2. MEN GET TIRED TOO
Though we stereotype men as unrepentant horndogs who could never possibly want to sleep when they there's a lady interested in riding their third legs, this belief can actually lead men who feel too exhausted for sex to fake an orgasm. Tiredness makes most men put up fake orgasm in other to be free from sexual encounter. Most said "I need sleep. In fact, I must sleep...So they decide to end."
3. TOO MUCH DRINK
They say alcohol is the cause of and solution to all of life's problems — and that includes unsatisfying sexual encounters. A 2010 University of Kansas poll found that, of the 28 percent of male undergrads who admitted to faking an orgasm, 24 percent blamed it on the alcohol, claiming they were full-on drunk when they faked an orgasm (compare that with women polled in the same survey, who claimed to have only faked orgasm because they were drunk six percent of the time).
4. NOT INTO HER
You know how sometimes you're having sex with someone and you just know that an orgasm just isn't going to happen? Yes, that also happens to guys too. When we find ourselves with a less attractive female, we just want get it done as soon as possible. Therefore, one sure way to get rid off, an unattractive female is by faking it.
Ultimately, everyone wants to feel good with the person they are getting into bed with. The Big O might certainly help. But make it the only letter in a prescription for sex.ual happiness, and we won’t be able to read one another at all.
special thanks: bustle.com, theguardian.com
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